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Carolyn Hax: When self-love feels elusive, try turning outward

When I have felt at my lowest, I try to do Good Deeds. Concrete, literal, measurable actions to make something or someone else better. Even if you’re really struggling with something you’ve done, some terrible regret, or some trait you don’t like in yourself, it’s hard to stay at bottom while someone is measurably better for your existence.